Our hotel, the San Francisco Airport Marriott Waterfront, was right on the bay, but the tide was out in the morning leaving a rocky shore and a mucky mess. For our first breakfast in California, we got some sausage and egg biscuits from the hotel Starbucks using my infinite student gift card credit, and ate them outside on a bench overlooking the mud flat with the airport runways in the distance. Then Zac walked to the nearby car rental agency where I had a reserved a full-sized sedan, while I kept an eye on the kids as they climbed the rocks and trees along the shore.
Thursday, April 7, 2022
CA day 2: Methuselah Tree + Henry Cowell Redwoods State Park + Santa Cruz Beach
Wednesday, April 6, 2022
CA day 1: Fly from RDU to SFO
I started officially planning this trip to California in August of 2021, but really it goes back to the summer of 2018 when I laid in bed so sick with my ulcerative colitis that I couldn't imagine ever being able to hike again. There was one weekend where a false reading on an ultra-sound made me think I had liver cancer on top of everything else, and I was fairly convinced I would just die. Among the many practical thoughts that coursed through my brain at the idea of passing away prematurely (mostly to-do lists) I had only one major regret: that I'd never gotten out to California to see the giant sequoias and redwoods. Two significant surgeries, a 40th birthday, and a pandemic later, it was time to just do it. The kids were finally old enough to undergo the arduous 6-hour flight and were capable of longer hikes. They were old enough to probably even remember the trip. Plus, California was burning and I needed to get out there before my trees were all gone. (About a month after I started working on the trip, the KNP Complex fire did burn through Sequoia National park.)
So, in August when Alice had COVID-19 and we were all stuck at home for a while, I got to work figuring out the logistics of the trip. The first step was to spend countless hours studying google maps to figure out where to go. I had the vague idea of a road trip in a loop. I also got some guide books out at the library to get a list of the best places to see. My original plan had us going north and south and had way too much driving for a mere 12 days. Eventually Zac and I decided on a mid-southern loop: start in San Francisco, drive south along the coast a bit, go over to Sequoia National Park and up to Yosemite National Park, then back over to San Francisco. It took countless hours to even map out the framework of the trip, then countless more hours to research and reserve flights, a rental car, and hotels in each place. That was phase one.
For phase two, deciding what to actually do in each location, I waited until late March. Even then, it was a bit difficult to plan because some things were still closed from the winter, some were closed due to pandemic restrictions (or just hadn't updated their websites since the omicron surge died down), and some were closed because we would be there before the true tourist season started in May. Eventually I got a rough outline of fun activities to do each day and started to get really excited about the trip. There were some low points early on, like finding out one of the hotels I reserved in Sequoia National Park was closed due to fire damage, or that some really awesome tree groves were closed due to fire damage, but luckily enough survived that there were still places to go.
It took so much time to plan and prepare and figure out this trip. We'd never travelled like this before and this was totally new terrain. On top of all that, I had a ton of work to do in advance to prepare for missing a mere three days of school. It was also peak Phoenix Fest preparation time, so I had to prepare materials and emails and forms and documents to all auto-send out while I was gone. To put it simply, I was stressed out from working around the clock planning the trip and preparing work stuff.
So when we finally set out on Wednesday afternoon, I was ready to reap what I had sown. I picked the kids up from the school carpool line around 4pm (since the bus doesn't drop them off until about 4:40 or later). Zac had worked from home, so he got the house all prepped for departure. Our neighbor Kelly kindly offered to go with us to the airport and drive our van home so we wouldn't have to pay for parking for two weeks or fret about a cab not showing up on time. We left our humble house around 4:30 pm on Wednesday and finally set out for our great adventure. We had a minor traffic jam on the way to the airport, but still arrived with plenty of time to eat our sandwiches and fill our water bottles while waiting to board our flight. We took off around 6:45 pm.
Alice and I sat next to each other in front of Zac and Simon, so both kids could have window seats. Although technically they've both flown before (a little plane at the beach that took us up for half an hour several years ago), this was their first real flight. They seemed to enjoy the thrill of departing from the earth and looking out the window as everything got smaller. Simon had been quite worried about airplane crashes, so he asked a lot of questions every time there was turbulence, but mostly took it all in stride. The distraction of the switch (handheld gaming device) helped a lot too. Alice also soon acclimated to being thousands of feet above ground, and turned to her books and electronics for entertainment. Overall, the flight went smoothly and both kids even slept a bit. The mask mandate was still in effect in airports and on flights, so everyone wore masks except when they were eating.
We arrived in San Francisco around 9:45 pm local time. We successfully collected all our luggage (they ended up gate-checking our carry-ons, which was quite convenient) and boarded the shuttle bus to our hotel. We were exhausted but exhilarated to finally be in California!
Sunday, April 3, 2022
Saturday, April 2, 2022
Burlington Visit
The kids actually played together with Julian, perhaps for the first time ever. Basketball on a beautiful spring day is the key.
Monday, March 28, 2022
Raven Rock with Izzy
On a day the kids school was closed (but I had to work) Natasha took Izzy and Alice for a day of hiking at Raven Rock. Looks like they had fun!
Friday, March 25, 2022
Kids being weird
Saturday, March 12, 2022
Kids dinner
We had Natasha and Andrea over for vegetarian lasagna dinner, and put the kids at the kids table in the kitchen so we could have actual conversations in the dining room. Zac went to take a picture of them (not sure why Simon is missing) and accidentally took a movie instead. I think it's a masterpiece short film.
Sunday, March 6, 2022
Schenck Forest hike with Friends
I am always so grateful for this group of daycare friends. They function as our extended family. We spent a warm March day on a short hike where the kids played in the creek for a long time and the grownups sat around on a fallen tree trunk sharing our parenting fails and concerns for democracy.
Tuesday, March 1, 2022
Art
Alice's main hobby is still art. She mostly draws dragons, but occasionally she'll do other things. She'll paint when friends come over. Zac even let her paint a mural behind the place the large mirror goes in the kids bathroom (when he was removing the wallpaper and painting it).
Monday, February 28, 2022
Fruit
Every night before a school/work day, I cut a bunch of fruit for bedtime snack and lunches the next day. Needless to say, we buy a ton of fruit when we go to the grocery store every four days.
Sunday, February 27, 2022
Simon's prank
Simon found a dead animal the cat brought in and put it in Alice's room with a rude note. (But look at me being proud of how much Simon wrote!) Alice took it all in stride, with much complaining.
Saturday, February 19, 2022
Fire pit party
We have frequent get-togethers at our fire pit. It's a great covid-safe activity. Except the kids get bored quickly and go up to the house and watch dumb YouTube videos together. Oh well. At least it gives the grownups and break and enough peace to visit.
Sunday, February 13, 2022
Chores
The kids are getting better at doing their chores without pitching a fit. I think Alice secretly likes having a list of things to do.
Saturday, February 12, 2022
Haw River Hike
I love that we can still find new places to hike! Today we took a warm winter walk along the Haw River. It was a gorgeous day and a fun flat walk. Simon still cried half way through when he was hungry and we forced him to eat an apple before we'd keep going. He finally did, and was fine the rest of the time. The trail goes on a long way, but we probably just walked about 3 miles.
Tuesday, February 8, 2022
When they make their own meals...
...it can be a bit weird. But they each met the requirements of grain, fruit, protein in their own way.






























